Ep 12: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! Our first episode to kick off season 2! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you’re not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they’re your match!

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[Music] n n hello everyone and welcome back to my channel it’s your host Arlette and we are back with another episode of pop the balloon or fine love and we’ve got the men lined up Make Some Noise guys okay I’m not sure what that was but we’re going to go ahead and bring out some Single Ladies when they come on out here if she’s your type you know the hair looking right makeup outfit whatever it is you know if you like what she’s saying do not pop your balloon however if there’s anything that you’re just like no MM this is not the girl for me I cannot see myself dating her go ahead and pop your balloon and then I’ll go over to a few of you see why you ended up popping y’all ready okay let’s do this so let’s go ahead and bring out our first single lady hello welcome I’ll have you hold that what’s your name hi I’m daa daa okay how old are you I’m above 30 okay above 30 you should be preg I’m above 30 okay okay and what do you do so I’m a podcaster of We Like It Hot podcast I own Beach s hair and I’m a ugc Creator okay very nice and now what do you look for in a man so what I look for in a man is someone who knows himself and is someone who is consistent and someone who will value me okay so what are some of your deal breakers deal breakers honestly just someone who’s not going to like put like who’s not going to put me as a priority okay like I just need someone who’s going to put me as a priority got it like you can have a kid just as long as I’m a priority got it okay and now what are some things you like to do for fun okay some things I like to do for fun I love my podcast I love going I love tubing I’ve just gotten into tubing I love hiking I love working out I’m trying to work out I’m trying to like you know know stay fit and I love just connecting with people okay very nice so daa you got no pot balloons okay yes so I’m now going to switch it on over to you okay first round everyone always says oh my God it’s so tough it’s hard because you don’t get to ask them a question I’m going to have you pop two of the guys balloons just kind of based off of what you’re seeing what doesn’t really fit into your usual you know physical type whatever it may be so let me hand you on over that and then go ahead and pop those two and then I’ll go ahead and ask you like what about them makes them not really your type honestly you guys are really handsome I was not expecting this like hold on okay can can I just like look at everybody I’m sorry go ahead yeah I’m sorry okay okay okay um I don’t know like let’s see you do look you look a little bit older okay and then one more and maybe you I don’t know you [Music] look I’m sorry I’m not good at okay I’ll just do it I feel like I like you though I don’t know okay if we can have your name and age my name is Reginal and I’m 33 3 years old okay and Reginal what do you do I work with youth and adults in the community helping them live better lives and teaching them life skills okay all right so you did have your balloon unpopped for daa why did you have it unpopped man the way you came out just such confidence it was amazing just your personality seems like it’s just beautiful uh somebody I can really see myself getting along with you’re welcome all right so Dria why we end up popping his the only reason I popped it was because I was thinking that you were a little bit older that was the only reason okay I’m sorry you’re the only 33 I’m sorry okay all right let’s go on to our other one that just popped over here all right if we can have your name and age all my name is Ernesto 31 years old okay and Ernesto what do you do uh I’m a model actor and barber okay and why did you have your balloon unpopped um beautiful you know great smile great personality very driven and she seems like she’ be cool to like stay at home and chill with and also to go out with so okay thank you now why do we end up popping head same reason I was thinking that you were like older 30s but you’re only you said you’re only 31 31 32 in July my bad no no you’re good you’re good you’re good you’re good okay yeah all right thank you all right daa so I’m going to go ahead and have you ask these guys a question just to kind of help you you know narrow it down see who more who is more your type all that good stuff okay who has kids is that a Jailbreaker for you no oh it’s it cuzz like you guys have priorities above me yeah just pop your balloon if you got kids pop it just pop it just pop it okay so two okay let’s go over to those guys all right if we can have your name and age my name is priest I’m 33 Okay priest what do you do I’m a comedian okay I love a comedian so we see you popped for the kids how many kids do you have I got one okay yeah I’m Bouie with my with my thing yeah he 10 okay okay okay uh yeah nah nah and I got a job too so I I can’t put my money over you know put my money beneath you and [ __ ] like that but and some bad ass Hills you got on thanks yeah you look like J jackon look like Jenna Jackson apart from him you know having a kid and everything is he someone that your type yeah I think so okay how old did you say you were 33 33 okay yeah yeah it’s giving thank you okay let’s head over here your name and age my name is Brian I’m 40 really I’m 41 in September can’t judge him off age baby okay Brian what do you do I’m an aircraft mechanic for majj airine in Houston so I just came out here to meet you but I had to pop cuz I do have a daughter she’s 19 Lea shout out to Ila oh wow black don’t crack y’all like you look good go ahead go ahead go ahead thank you love I’m going just say props thank you love I got that fa in the youth yes you do okay so he said he does have the daughter without being your dealbreaker but is he someone that is your type yeah your daughter is actually grown you said she’s 19 she grown oh wow so this like it’s almost doesn’t even count right so you’re saying her the daughter being 19 that was yeah that almost didn’t count you could have probably kept yours I could have kept mine yeah do you have any kids no okay how old are you above 30 above 30 m you’re not confident in it I’m waiting for my husband to have a kid okay cuz I didn’t tell my age y’all you want to know that’s fine that’s okay it’s cool it’s cool it’s cool I think you got to be confidence in your age it doesn’t it doesn’t really matter how old you are it’s cool we all grown up here okay you know we don’t want little girls we want grown women yeah you know so definitely stand on that age cuz the older you look the older you are the better you look if you ask me abely depending upon the industry that you’re in okay yeah okay it’s nice to meet you though thank you okay let’s go over to our pop balloons over here if we can have your name and age absolutely my name is Demetrius and I’m 36 years old and Demetrius what do you do I am a talent acquisition so Staffing or recruiter okay very nice and now uh why did you end up popping your balloon exactly what he said uh I hate to say the lack of confidence in expressing the age okay we all over 30 over on the stage we don’t mind you being over 30 we don’t mind you being 40 we we came on the show to make sure that we find somebody that we connect with and and just being honest and just you know open up front matters to men so that’s that’s really what that was for me specifically other than that you’re you’re very gorgeous and driven and I and I like that thank you and now is Demetrius someone that’s your type um how did you say you were 36 36 um I would actually have to get to know you a little bit more past what you just told me yeah I’m the only one with no kids though I’m just teasing I’m just teasing okay thank you all righty so we did get another pop over here if we can have your name and age my name is Mike uh I’m 37 and Mike what do you do I’m a fitness instructor and a poet as well okay and then why did you end up popping your balloon well she says you know no children I have a daughter that’s 19 and my son is 14 so you know they’re important to me so okay for sure but I mean you look good like you take care of yourself and all that so I mean I respect I respect that you you know you want to reserve that for somebody okay so that’s cool thank you now if Mike were to approach you is that someone you would go for yeah yeah okay I’m more into personality I’m more into like a connection like having a conversation with somebody like do I feel comfortable in your energy is what I’m trying to feel like looks is cool but does somebody feel does this person make me feel comfortable in their energy is what I’m looking for I feel it I respect it okay thank you let’s go on over here if we can have your name and age my name is James gourm pies Facebook Instagram check me out um I am 37 years old okay and James what do you do I know you said Gourmet pies yeah I make the world’s best gourmet sweet potato pies you know what I’m saying so and I’m also a retired vet so thank you for your service oh appreciate that appreciate and now why did you end up popping your balloon um she said anybody with kids and I have two um one is 12 the other one’s 18 um so I got kids but I love your energy I love the fact that you’re driven and all that as well well as a fellow entrepreneur and somebody who’s living their dreams that’s somebody that’s you know that’s important I see you I know you do I know you I seen when you was coming out you was like you you don’t nobody with kids were okay all right thank you I what I preface that like this whole no kids thing y’all I just got of a two out of a two-year thing with somebody with kids that like never put me first at all so I just I feel like I’m like a little bit I don’t know on guard can I say something to like um for me it’s God first and then my wife you know and then the kids so absolutely yeah yes sir okay but you guys are all amazing all right let’s go back this way thank you okay we end up getting a pop over here why did we end up popping if we can start with your name and age first my name is Eric and and I am 38 uhhuh so you’re obviously a bright shining light you walk in everyone light up the room right your personality is great but I think that when you’re in a situation like this we’ve got to start with honesty and we’re like I said we’re all over 30 right and I think it’s important to to start off hey this is my age this is you know what I mean so if you’re not okay saying that then it you know it just seems like we’re starting off on a bad Foundation you know so that was it for me but I really I really enjoy the way you’re put together I love the colorful uh demeanor right and your presence it’s beautiful so that’s it thank you I just want to preface one thing yeah I do a lot of brand deals and they I do a age range so that’s why I really didn’t want my age on the internet I understandable of course yeah yeah there’s nothing wrong with was dating you you could definitely know my age just letting you know but the internet like with like working with certain brands and stuff like sorry but fair enough okay all right there all right Jara well that was all the balloons popped we weren’t able to find you a match today but thank you so much for coming on thanks y’all you guys are amazing bye this let’s give it up for her all right let’s go ahead and bring out our next single lady hello welcome I’ll have you hold that what’s your name name Jasmine Jasmine how old are you I’m 30 30 okay and what do you do I am a dental assistant currently in school to be a hygienist and then hopefully going on to become a dentist after that okay all right and now what do you look for in a man um I need someone who’s driven um someone who’s caring patient um someone who’s funny cuz I’m funny so if you can match my funny I’d like that okay and now what are some of your deal breakers um honestly just the top one is just a liar if you can’t tell me the truth then there’s really no no getting past that okay all right and now what are some things you like to do for fun um I like to rollerblade I like to kayak um hiking because you know I live in Arizona but not this time of year just so you know um hang by the pool I like to go out and try new places to eat things like that okay all right cool so there are no pot balloons yet so we’re actually going to switch it on over to you I’m going to go ahead and hand you that’s a little toothpick and off of the first round I’m going to have you pop two balloons just you know off of appearance what’s not your usual TI what you know you wouldn’t really go for so I’ll have you pop those two and then once you pop them I’ll go ahead and ask you why we end up popping okay um everybody looks good by the way I see I was popping tags too okay okay and then one more okay you can stay there we’ll start with him first all right if we can have your name and age I’m James with James Gourmet pies 37 okay and James you had your balloon unpopped for Jasmine why so I just wanted to check her out like I’m not one of them people that do surface level dating so I wanted to hear what you had going on you know when I heard kayaking I was ready to pop cuz like I don’t do all that but you know but I believe in letting you know have her own Hobbies her own Hobbies okay all right and then why do we end up hopping uh James Bing um you’re very handsome um just the attraction level is not there um you’re a little bit on the shorter side um and that’s really really about it I like that you make pies though oh yeah thank you thank you ship Nationwide James gourmet.com James Gourmet okay and then let’s go to the other one you ended up popping if we can have your name and age my name is Reginal I’m 33 years old okay and uh Reginald you had your balloon unpopped why wanted to give you a chance you know just to get to know you you are attractive of course I did have some questions in mind that I wanted to ask you didn’t really get to that part but it’s okay okay all right and now Jasmine why did you end up popping his balloon well you’re very well spoken um but I did end up popping your balloon it’s just the hair I like it a little bit more tamed I guess I like hair just I need it a little bit more more Tamed okay that’s fair okay all right thank you and let’s go back over here so we do still have quite a uh few balloons left unpopped I’m going to go ahead and have you ask the guys a question just to help us narrow it down for you okay um if I had to ask your friends and family um three words that would describe you like what would those three words be okay if we can have your name and age and the three words that your friends or family would use to describe you yeah uh my name is Eric I am 38 years old and the three words I would say sarcastic artsy I don’t how you’re laughing and funny okay yeah yeah okay I like that all right name age and the three words priest uh 33 funny ass nword okay a phrase I like that okay okay let’s go over here if we can have your name and age and the three words your family would used to describe you my name is Brian I’m 40 I would say confident funny and spiritual okay all right name and age and answer to your question absolutely my name is Demetrius I’m 36 I would say the three words will be determined charismatic uh and giving okay same thing over here your name and age and the answer to your question my name is Ernesto 31 years old and I would say loyal I would say hardworking and honest okay all right your name and age and the three words your family and friends would used to describe you my name is Mike I’m 37 um they probably say I’m thoughtful creative they Ain funny I like I like sell jokes so okay most definitely I like that all good answers yeah you got a whole panel of funny guys I guess tell a joke no just kidding okay so I’m going to go ahead and have you pop three balloons okay yeah based off of you know what you’ve seen what you’ve heard all that good stuff okay three three three three that’s a lot of balloons I know um my pop here okay two more this is hard I know that’s what everyone says you ready for your balloon he said here it is oh this is so hard okay okay okay all right and then one more I’m I ain’t even looking at you I’m all okay okay let’s see okay we’ll start over here so why did we end up hopping his balloon honestly that was really hard I’m going to say that right now like um if I had to say why I popped your balloon um just the attraction level is not there I guess okay you’re very handsome though very well put together I like the polo and you’re matching it really nice with your shoes too thank you yeah okay we do still have our two other guys so one’s right here why do you end up popping head um just the height I hate to say that but it’s the height okay that’s not a problem that’s not a problem I knew it was coming I was going to get her cuz I heard she said that to him but I wanted to hear you out because I like tall women so the hype for me is really not a problem the taller the better okay I’m only I’m only 5’5 but okay so you got heels on so you yeah so you pushing me out cuz you got heels on how tall are you I’m 5’7 5 he’s taller than you girl yeah I was kidding okay okay okay all right and then we did have one more right over here might have end up popping his um very handsome um you got a lot of jewelry on and I’m just not really too big on on the jewelry I see do you have a gold tooth too in there yeah permanent um so just just that just that that’s it yeah okay all right let’s go back on over here so we do have three balloons left unpopped okay I’m going go ahead and have you ask the guys another question does anybody have any kids it’s not a dealbreaker I just want to know I was like so P two pick down okay how many kids okay let’s go down over there okay all right and I think she asked you how many kids you have I have two children okay yeah how many baby M two two okay what’s your relationship like with them we coopar well I mean my kids are older 19 14 so okay we’ve been through the ups and downs but we had a point where everybody you said how old are you again I’m so sorry I’m 37 okay yeah okay okay good yeah okay all right so guys do we have a question to ask yeah okay let’s start over here how do you feel about kids do you want to have kids I have a a a 12-year-old daughter 12y old yeah okay so if that’s a deal breaker for y’all let me know but I do have you want to have more um I’m up I’m open to that yeah right now I say you know but I’m I’m single so but yeah I’m open if I get married and me and my husband want to have a baby or two two is all you’re getting out of me though unfortunately so and they they come in back to back okay okay all right ready okay you got a question down here so the same question for you what’s your relationship with your children’s father um we co-parent really really well um honestly I consider him family um so yeah we and we there’s no like bickering no drama he’s in a relationship um he’s happy I’m happy um it’s all about our daughter and what’s best for her so there’s really no it’s cut and dry with that haven’t been with him for 11 years good any questions here all right so let’s say that we end up connecting what would you like to do what kind of dates do you like oo see the thing about that is I would like you to lead that um I hate when a man asks me like what do you what do you want to do like if you want to ask me out I would hope that you would have a plan on what we were about to do because I’m honestly down for anything MH cool okay all right girl we oh oh okay he’s like wait before he pop uh what’s the relationship like with the father of your daughter’s child could hear us from oh you couldn’t hear oh I didn’t hear I’m sorry yeah oh I was like I just um we co-parent very well he’s like family honestly um we don’t have any like back and forth we’ve been broken up for 11 years um but we do get along very well very well cool but there’s no like side conversations or nothing and it’s just like hey Shan needs this blah blah blah blah and that’s really it okay and what’s if you if you did want to have more kids what would be like the timeline how how how old did you say you were oh I’m 30 oh okay so what would be the the timeline well I should be intering school full-time in October um that’s two years um so after that then I can start popping them out but then I do want to become a dentist but I can be pregnant in school it’s fine I can be pregnant that’s fine as long as you’re okay with me going back to school like or continuing on with my education um I right now provide for myself I’m not looking for anybody to provide for me I just want an additive um I’m not like searching for you to like give me an allowance or anything like that I make my own money right okay fair enough all right okay girl it’s elimination time so I’m going to go ahead and have you pop uh one of these guys balloons one of mhm okay I’m sorry I’m going pop your balloon okay so why did we end up popping his just the attraction level between the the three of them like it’s just so I had to pop somebody’s balloon okay for sure yeah I’m so sorry all right but you’re very handsome thank you yes thank you okay so we do have our two guys left her final question I’m going to have you ask over to them okay m yeah your question them I’m just kidding I’m just kidding okay my final question um oh are you guys okay with me having a a 12-year-old like is that is that okay yeah yeah that’s fine okay fine yeah I think that’s uh a preference really I mean it just depends cuz we can kind of relate on a parental level I’m not looking to be like a priority above your kids so I can you know you being a parent as well we have conversations that only parents could have okay okay I like that I like that okay okay time to make a decision I’m going to have you pop one of these guys balloon okay I have one question okay um you seemed a little okay perfect I was going to ask you the question because you seemed a little bit unsure about my baby so that works out great okay Eric why you up popping um I don’t like the timeline I want someone who wants wants to have kids like right away not necessarily right away but two years you know she’s going to school you know perfect that’s it okay I I respect that answer honestly but but she’s been looking at me been looking at her I think so we had some some connection there so it’s unfortunate but got it okay all right well let me have you come on up here oh my God okay let’s let’s go let’s go all right why did we end up hopping I just thought about it like you know when when he ask you what you like to do it’s not it’s easy to lead to plan a DAT as a man that’s like but as far as you just sharing your input what you like you share with that he asked you like you know what you like to do I I want to know what you like you know so I could have our to make the plan but you know I answered that in the beginning though what I like to do for fun so when he asked me that I was like I literally gave you like five things that I like to do so I wanted you to take the lead and I did say that’s what I was looking for but I respect your answer okay okay oh man well that’s all the balloons popped unfortunately we weren’t able to find your a m today but thank you so much for coming on let’s go ahead and give it up for her thank you thank you okay let’s go ahead and bring out our next single lady hello welcome in I’ll have you hold that what’s your name mayowa IA how old are you I am 32 32 okay and what do you do I am a business owner of 7even years I’m A Lash instructor um yeah okay all right and now what are some things you look for in a man um definitely a great work ethic consistent um a lover of art whether it’s like music creativity painting anything okay um yeah and someone that’s just emotionally available okay and now what are someone your deal with Breakers the only thing would be like a pessimist and cat owners okay all right so we did get a few pop balloons let’s go ahead and go on over to these guys and see why they ended up popping okay let’s start right here all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon uh my name is Eric and I am 38 mhm and the reason I popped it is I don’t like heavy eyelashes mhm and there’s something going on with I feel like the left one is just so heavy it’s way it’s hard for you to keep your eyes open or something okay there something yeah so yeah something going on so okay mhm yeah and then um yeah that’s that was the the the first thing that caught my eye okay so I’m sorry oh absolutely that’s your that’s your thing just a preference you know for sure absolutely yeah yeah so and now is um Eric someone that’s your type I would say yes cuz I you’re a Nigerian I’m assuming yeah J you speak you speak your yep okay okay let’s go over to our next guy here abely we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping yeah uh priest 33 he you look like a black Barbie doll thank you I ain’t got enough money to afford you okay thank you yeah thank you yeah I go broke I’ll go broke and I’ll have to file for chapter 11 bankruptcy boy I need F job to make you H boy you was yeah you got some pretty toes too yeah and now I know yall not in the zoom in on okay and now is someone that’s your type I would say yes I love your style thank you thank you yes ma’am yes ma’am yes ma’am thank you yes ma’ okay if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is regg I’m 33 years old I pop my balloon cuz I can see through your shirt through the bottom of it yeah not the nipples though yeah I can see through it for me that’s just a little too much I don’t wear this cross just for any reason absolutely and so yeah just I’m not feeling it I respect it appreciate you m all right and now same thing is Reginal someone if he were to approach you is he your type um I I don’t go off types just off of looks so [Music] um I would say no okay you be specific yeah why he just has on all black and I just felt like maybe it just feels like you didn’t put any effort into your outfit hey I respect that yes that’s cool that’s cool all right thank you let’s go on to our next guy here all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping absolutely my name is Demetrius and I’m 36 and the only reason why I popped is just I I didn’t feel a physical connection initially and so that’s all that’s the only reason perfect okay and what about him if he were to approach you would you go for that um no just the height thing got it but that like height doesn’t matter to me but if we’re just judging off looks then no okay got it no problem thank you all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping your balloon my name is Ernesto I’m 31 years old and you’re very beautiful black barie physically definitely 10 out of 10 but just the first impression cuz you know you have to go off for First Impressions you seem very business-minded right now and you know I’m looking at the age where I need a a woman that maybe has one thing going on with business and then has more time to kind of develop a family I’m just going off a first impressions but you’re very beautiful and thank you it was very nice to meet you yeah you as well yeah all right and how are you feeling to make sure it’s see your type um no no okay why not um his hair that’s all okay all right thank you and then wait that’s actually we got one back here before we go down there if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is Brian I’m 40 m uh I don’t think love have to do with someone’s height I don’t think so either or with the woman’s weight mhm okay woman’s weight you said I don’t I don’t think height has to do with a man’s height uh love has to do with a man’s height or with a woman’s weight yeah absolutely I absolutely agree I think love is at first sight I really do believe that I was kind of loving you right now but when you said that that was like a deal breaker for me cuz I’m the shortest one on the panel but I can hold my own weight I stand on that oh absolutely and you should have po your balloon wi you was a winner mhm but you almost won I was forced to say what it was I would have said it in real life right I date short men and tall men okay so unfortunately I’m sorry that’s no problem you said you shouldn’t have pops the height is not really a deal breaker for her what I heard it though it shouldn’t have been said you know so for a shorter man you know I’m sorry hurt your feelings it didn’t hurt my feelings you know it’s just that um you might not choose me I want a woman that chooses me as well as I choose her okay so I was choosing you mhm but when you said something that’s just disqual if myself so okay I respect that though you’re beautiful thank you yeah cool let’s going on over here okay if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is Mike I’m 37 um I don’t know me me and my man got a similar haircut I know it’s an individual thing but over haircut it seems like I don’t know y y’ haircut is not the same you’re kind of like faded on the side I see okay yeah and I just I don’t know I I go I keep it clean cut I know had a preference as far as like you know just it not it needed to look a certain way but it seemed pretty similar so oh okay I mean it wasn’t not personal I mean you look good absolutely thank you absolutely and now is he someone that’s your type yes okay all right cool we do have one more over here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is James with James Gourmet Pi 37 mhm and why did I pop MH um you know what contrar to their belief um I do love that you’re business-minded professional I’m a fellow entrepreneur so it would be lovely to have somebody that understands business and you know goes with that uh the other one that I want to contradict a little bit is the height you know what I mean like for me I’ve dated taller women and there’s a stigma around that you know what I mean like um either you got to like love them cuz they’re taller or there’s like a fetish what taller shorter person I don’t know it was just a problem with dating taller women in the past so that’s the only thing for me I mean very beautiful but for me there just seemed to be a stigma around dating taller women can I clarify that I didn’t say that he was short because like like that was the reason why he wasn’t my type that was just the first thing that stood out but I date shorter men so I don’t know why everyone feels yeah that’s crazy I did not say I don’t like short men even like if you go out to the club or something and you wearing heels you know what I mean if you wanted to go to a a club I mean as long as you’re confident enough to approach me then that’s just that I’m saying like when we dancing you oh you’re saying height is a problem for you oh okay okay I mean if you wore flats or something we might be able to you would just have to get low you know mean like in order for so that’s all it is okay cool very beautiful woman thank you I appreciate very business-minded everything else 10 out of 10 I think everyone heard what they wanted to hear at this point okay so that is unfortunately all of the balloons popped we do thank you so much for coming on let’s give it up for her guys thank you okay let’s go ahead and bring out our next single lady hello welcome in I’ll have you hold that what’s your name Shard Shard and how old are you I’m 33 33 okay and what do you do I work in sales for an electronic company and I’m also a children’s book author oh nice uh what are some things you like to do for fun um anything adventurous so like skydiving I really would lights go on a hot air balloon before the year ends traveling trying new foods cooking anything that’s fun okay and now what are some things you look for in a man honest you must be honest intentional with your time um those are the main two things that can tell a lot about a person oh and not too many kids okay what’s too many for you um no more than two no more than two okay and no more than two baby mothers M okay all right and know um is that considered a deal breaker for you do you have any other deal breakers as well that’s a that’s a top Contender okay yes all right cool so we did get a popped balloon down there let’s go on over there see what’s going on all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Mike I’m 37 um it wasn’t just the case just more so just the energy I can kind of feel that probably just be cool you know okay and and what what energies like what are you getting like just somebody like I got three sisters so like I just get that Vibe like we just be cool like you know not really like romantically okay okay all right and now is Mike someone that you’re typed yes okay okay what makes him your type um I don’t really have a type in particular um just him saying he has kids is a no for me you got it okay all right thank you and we did get one right here if we can have your name and age and why you popped your balloon my name is Demetrius and I’m 36 uh and I agree uh just the energy just I’m a connection feel type of person and I’m I’m just not feeling that simple simple as that okay okay understandable but I do love the hair you’re absolutely gorgeous it’s it’s natural I love that for sure thank you all right and now is if he were someone that was to approach you is that something you would go for yes it’s unfortunate that you popped your balloon okay all right let’s head on back this way so we do still have quite a few unpopped balloons okay so I’m going to switch it on over to you and I’m going to have you pop two guys balloons just based off of you know what you’re seeing you know maybe it’s the alpha hair whatever it is I’m going to go ahead and on over to you so I’ll have you hold that and then you’ll pop the two and then once you pop them I’ll go ahead and ask you what it was about them that you popped okay okay and then one more okay let’s go this way I’ll Havey stand right there okay if we can have your name and age James with James bur pies 37 okay and uh James you did have your balloon unpopped why again I’m here to hear everybody out I don’t want to do surface level dating um see what you got to offer what you got to say okay so if you saw her out is she someone that you would approach possibly yeah possibly okay I love the hair so the hair would be the initial you know conversation starter and then after that I would hear what you have to say and if it matched up then what you doing later okay and now why do we end up popping James balloon um it was simply the height that was it okay got it very thank you and let’s go to our other balloon that you ended up popping if we can have your name and age my name is Brian I’m 40 okay and Brian why did you have your balloon unpopped I love that she has standards when she asked who has kids and how many baby mamas and things like that I love a woman with standards and that’s what I saw okay got it and now I know you told him about the height I’m guessing is that the same thing happening here yes okay okay you don’t like short men not particularly okay that’s just um that’s just my preference no problem you definitely have a preference all right that’s okay yes thank you okay let’s head on back this way so so we do have uh four guys left I’m going to go ahead and have you ask these guys a question just to kind of you know help you narrow it down see who’s more your match um how do you manage stress and conflict got it how do you manage stress and conflict okay start with our first guy here we can have your name and age and the answer to your question okay my name is Eric I am 38 years old um I do have a generally stressful job but I’m I’m easygoing by default so I try not to things don’t stress me out that much but I’m a dog trainer and yeah I’m dealing with stressful situations um I do have a level head by default so I think that it I don’t yeah I don’t often feel very stressed out to begin with I love music so every morning I wake up I play music I start my day with some Andy Grammar some burner boy and I’m always you know what I mean it puts me in a good mood and then I’m just good for the rest of the day about conflict um I do like to have like some time between arguments like 12 hours or so just to think through it I don’t want to say things I try not to I don’t remember the last time I’ve called anyone out of their name you know what I mean so I like to give some space in between some people like to solve the problems immediately I like to think through it if I’m wrong I will come and tell you that I’m sorry and keep it simple that way 12 hours it’s a half a day I have stuff to do you have stuff to do we shouldn’t be sitting there going back and forth in text messages you know so if it feels like it’s going to be stressful take a break and then come back to it okay yeah okay all right if we can have your name and age and then the answer to her question priest I’m 33 uh as far as stress I don’t I don’t got stress in my life uh but if I do have stress that’s when I go to the Bible and read it because keeping God first is you know I’m thankful to be alive and breathing there people out here going through things worse than me as far as conflict uh I ain’t going to I ain’t gonna go back and forth with you I’m do a comedy show and then I just yeah I’m I’m I’m a comedian by default so I’m G just talk [ __ ] about you on stage yeah yeah that’s how I handle conflict so I just that’s why I don’t have any conflict with anybody I talk to turn that into I turn that [ __ ] into art because comedy is my full-time job so does that mean that you’re maybe avoiding things if you always make a joke out of it got to avoid it man I ain’t got time to be going back and forth and that interfer with my job and then it interfere with my performance and money okay thank you yes ma’am let’s go over here if we can have your name and age and the answer to her question my name is regginald I’m 33 years old answer to your question take everything to God cast your burdens and your cares on him because he cares for you I found that every area of my life it don’t matter what it is is I can always go to God he’s a counselor he’s your best friend he’s my first love I heard somebody say before that their mom was their first love but he’s my first love cuz my parents always taught me about Jesus Christ and so that’s how I handle U my stress and how I handle conflict I love to communicate because I feel like it’s extremely important I care about that person I want to know what’s on their mind CU I am not a mind reader I want to know what’s in their heart and I can put my own past experiences in that or I could actually ask you and you can tell me um also if we are arguing and I realize that the conversation is not really going that well we could take a minute it’s not going to be 12 hours it’s not I’m going try to get back as quickly as possible because I don’t want the demon setting in I’mma go I’mma pray and that prayer don’t have to be that long God you know give me the grace be able to do this but I want to get it resolved so we can get back to loving each other and enjoying our lives what is your communication style what do you mean what is your communication Style conversational um that’s my interpretation of your question conversational I’m not here argue fuss and fight can I raise my voice yes do I like to raise my voice and do I try my best not to absolutely we’re not each other’s enemies I look at it as more if we have an issue I don’t mean to sound too spiritual but I feel like that’s the devil trying to come in and mess up what we got going on and so I’mma put my foot on his neck not my woman his neck so more so conversational and and work it out okay thank you you’re welcome okay we got one more over here if we can have your name and age and the answer to her question all right my name is arnesto I’m 31 years old and um to answer your question about stress um I have a a gym routine that I have every morning I go to the gym I walk my dog um talking to my partner and uh you know through what I do like modeling and also through barbering it relieves my stress cuz you’re focused on one thing so um and as far as conflict goes between relationships um you just got to be talk to each other face to face not over the phone not text go and talk it out even if it gets a little dicey not too crazy little dicey talk it out and then move on and go from there so okay thank you all right so we had four great responses I’m going to go ahead and have you pop two of these guys balloons based off of what you’ve heard okay and then one more all right let’s start with him why’ you end up hopping uh Eric’s balloon um just the response I just wasn’t just wasn’t really feeling their response about the stress and the conflict that’s it what about it though the response don’t you like specifically it’s 12 hours I three off yeah that yeah 12 hours you really need 12 hours to cool off and not talk to your partner it’s not it’s not about cooling off it is though if you need 12 hours it is about cooling off and having to really think about what you’re going to say to me right you have to think you have to think too hard I can understand maybe like an hour or two or just how to just control your emotions while we’re in the moment right because we get into a heat argument and you’re supposed to be like the one for me like hopefully my husband M you’re not about to call off for 12 hours about to talk about it right now yeah I don’t like that so okay that’s fine thank you all right you ended up popping his why did we pop his balloon the comedy as aspect then you say you’re going to go on stage and make a joke out of it hey turn it into turn it into art make that money take you shopping okay we talk about the conflicts while we shopping so you’re materialistic nah n just talk about the conflicts while we shopping you look like Jordan Sparks though you do thank you yes ma’am all right so we do still have two balloons left on pop uh fellas do we have a question for her I have a question okay let’s start here I noed you did not pop my balloon when I talked about guys so I will wanted to ask you what’s your relationship like with Jesus Christ if you on mind Sharon yes so my relationship with God is very very important um I’m just still working to have a better relationship with him um as an adult I’m hoping to get to get re-baptized at the end of the year and find a church home on my own as an adult um having God and Jesus Christ in the center of your marriage is very very important so I would say that I have a a great Rel relationship with God and it’s all about having a personal relationship and not just hooting hollering in the pool pit every Sunday it’s Sunday through Sunday your personal relationship with God so that’s why I did not pop your balloon thank you okay you’re welcome we have a question down here yes okay okay so I know that you write children’s books I think that’s very cool what got you started in writing children’s books um it was a personal EXP experience um so the title of my children’s book is why do you talk so proper so I’m sure you can relate relate or can figure out what it’s about so it was all about personal experience um and then when I was doing my research there wasn’t a book that existed about that specific topic catering towards black children from the experience of a black person so that’s why I wrote my children’s book that’s very cool thank you yeah okay all right girl time to pop one of their balloon um may I ask another question okay let’s do that how do holidays look like in the future with your family love that question holidays in the future my family definitely going to talk to my lady and see hey for this year do we want to go to your parents do we want to go to my parents do we want to do our own thing that’s just a conversation because it’s about us and whatever makes us happy I’ve had so many years already with my parents and man supposed to find his wife supposed to do his thing leave his father and mother cleave to his wife I’m all about that life so get me get me gone what’s your favorite holiday oh wow I would say my favorite holiday is Christmas because I love to see other people rece re gifts um the last Christmas me and my brothers we decided to not give each other anything but put all that back into our parents and then to our nieces and nephews because they’re little ones and memories for them how many siblings do you have I have a lot I have five brothers okay I have two sisters so it’s eight of us and I got where you from I’m from Texas what part of Texas I’m from the Austin area but I live in San Antonio okay thank you you’re welcome all right what was your question again how um how do you envision spending your holidays with your future family U well I have a very big um family right now okay um I I’m mixed race uh you know Mexican black so we have a lot of get togethers and um you know I love to take my my future wife my girl to those get togethers you know and uh maybe go there with them one uh holiday and then we’ll do like I don’t know getaway me and my my lady for another holiday and just mix it up you know whatever however you feel comfortable you know if you want to go with them or we can just hang out with each other but definitely together for sure what’s your favorite holiday honestly Thanksgiving cuz you don’t really have to buy presents per se and everybody gets together kids are there everybody’s there so I say Thanksgiving okay and Thanksgiving yeah um you said that you’re half Mexican well yeah my mom is uh is Cuban Mexican and black and my dad is black so so do you know multiple languages uh I speak Spanish and a little bit of French but Spanish yes say something in Spanish [Music] um you speak Spanish no no I was just I was just interested I would love to pick up a second language so that’s why I was asking I was trying to see how fluent you really were or if you knew that second language at all yeah no yeah Spanish and then I’m working on my French a little bit we yeah so but yeah okay all right cool I’m sorry where you where do you live where you from um well I grew up out here in the valley but I was born in Illinois but I moved out here when I was a kid so I think I was like 11 so I’m from I’m from the valley I’m a valley boy so okay yeah all right okay you got a tough decision uh oh yeah y got sure I would love to hear your answer to how you handle stress and conflict um how I handle stress um up until recently I wouldn’t realize I was stressed I would have so many things my plate between work entrepreneurship family and then it wouldn’t be until the last minute like oh my gosh my body is trying to tell me that I am stressed so um I want to say over the past year I have learned to manage my stress a little bit more by having open communication taking walks and just trying to figure out what is stressing me out like what do I need to take off of my plate in order to not be so stressed um how I handle conflict I would say what I also have learned recently is ask questions right away when it comes to conflict whether it’s with your loved ones your family or even your friends before it gets two bags I have bottled up my like I have bottled up things in the past but I have recently learned that that is not healthy and that’s not serving either relationship no matter what the relationship may be so now I’m just a little bit more um forthcoming with questions and just you know asking whatever it might may be that’s bothering me or what I need to know the answer to I love it thank you all right I’m going to have you now pop one of their balloons yeah I know it’s tough yes it is this is a great line okay mhm okay why did we end up popping his um nothing like really in particular I just had to make a decision I really loved your answers and and I really like that you’re fluent in Spanish thank you you’re welcome oh graas okay let me have you come on up here come on up come on up all right y’all so I have one final question if there’s no other questions between the two of you okay how do you define success I define success as doing what God wants you to do because my role models are in the Bible and a lot of them didn’t have money a lot of them forsook their families just to preach the gospel and follow the calling that God had on their life my version of success is being in God’s perfect will so that’s my version of success it’s not about how much money we have although I make money and though I provide but just being the man that God created me to be and the only way I’m going to be able to do that I heard you say you were working on your relationship with God so is to continue working on it working out that salvation with fear and trembling all the days of your life we’re not going to be perfect but we can get as close to God as possible before we finally see him on that last day okay all right so is it going to be a yes for you for her it’s going to be absolutely yes is it a yes for you for him yes we got a match right I’ll go ahead and take this mic and you guys can go on off yes okay let’s go ahead and bring out our next single lady welcome in what’s your name hi I’m Joselyn Joselyn how old are you I’m 29 okay and what do you do I’m a systems engineer all right okay and what are some things you like to do for fun um I like to Garden I’m a gy gym babe and um I read a lot oh and I binge watch Bridgeton and Avatar but yes that’s thing okay and I what things you look for in a man um emotional intelligence I’m want a best friend a person I can confide in um someone who’s funny down to earth ambitious I could go along okay you know now what are some deal breakers uh cigarette smokers okay yes I know all right don’t seem like we have any okay so and we see there’s no pop balloons so for the first round I’m going to switch it on over to you so let me hand you a toothpick so here you go and um I’m going to have you pop three balloons just kind of based off what you’re seeing what’s not really your type whatever it may be you’ll pop those three and then I’ll go ahead and ask you why we ended up popping them all right um you all are great looking young men by the way okay um okay all right one more three yeah okay we’ll start down there since we’re already here hi how you doing fine how are you I’m good all right if we can have your name and age James Gourmet Pi 37 okay and James you had your balloon unpopped why so beautiful lady beautiful woman yeah definitely thank you and so why do we end up hopping his balloon James I’m a little tall and I’m just a little bit taller than you James you know what I’mma come back in like 6 months right and I’m going get that surgery where they break your legs you know what I’m saying I might be addicted to perets but cuz I’mma tighten them every day you know what I mean that’s hurting but you know I’mma come back I’m be 6’1 okay all right okay and you pop two others we’ll start over here if we can have your name and age yeah my name is Ernesto I’m 31 okay and Ernesto why did you have your balloon unpopped uh Pleasant beautiful you know well spoken okay all right and then why do we end up popping his you’re very attractive but it was a hoop earring for me got it thank you no problem all right and then we did pop one more right here if we can have your name and age Absolut my name is Demetrius and I’m 36 and Demetrius why did you have your balloon unpopped uh she’s very attractive uh that emotional intelligence is probably top two on my list uh it lets me know that you know how to manage your emotions well and so that was the main reasons why I did not pop my balloon okay all right and then why did you to pop in his balloon I popped your balloon because I am not physically attracted to you that’s all you’re a greatl looking young man no problem than okay thank you all right so we do still have four balloons left unpopped I’m going to go ahead and have you ask the guys a question to kind of help us narrow it down oh okay um do you all have children how many oh we got three of them L okay okay let’s start right here if we can have your name and age and how many kids you have priest um 33 I got one he’s 10 okay that’s cool name and age and how many kids you have my name is Brian I’m 40 I have one daughter she’s 19 grown woman okay all right and name and age and how many kids you have okay my name is Mike I’m 37 my daughter’s 19 as well and my son is 14 hey why do we end up popping his you have one too many but you seem like a great father definitely okay great all right and then so why did you have your balloon unpopped for her um I I like she’s say she she likes to go to the gym stuff like that like she seems like she takes good care of herself thank she’s attractive for sure thank you thank you okay we are down two three I’m going to go ahead and have you ask the guys another question um what religion do you practice okay start here with your name and Age and what religion do you practice my name is Eric and I am 38 and I’m a Christian okay and what religion do you practice Christianity sorry oh here we go he said Christianity Christianity okay and same thing up here uh I really don’t practice a religion I was raised Christian um but the older I get I like to become more spiritual and try to research things on my own about God so I do have a personal relationship with God and I think that’s all that matters religion has nothing to do with it okay that was beautiful okay I agree um I have to keep asking question no no no I was I don’t I thought you were going to add more you look like you wanted to say more to him no I um I completely respect that everyone’s on their own Journey so that’s how you feel that’s how you feel I respect that 100% okay um all right that’s good this way she’s like what do I say all right and then so based off of those responses you’ve heard so far I’m going to go ahead and have you pop another balloon well two of them had the same answer and Lord you know what let me make it easier for you let’s have them ask you a question okay okay guys no one oh okay sure um what what kind of engineering are you do you practice I’m a systems engineer that’s great that was my first love the first thing I did as a child my dad was an engineer as well and I really loved building like laptops you know CPUs and stuff back in the back as a child me yes yeah I understand that so that’s great and then smoking as well is my top three automatic fourpoint deduction on a 1 to 10 hotness scale it’s just no so I like that about you as well thank you over here yeah uh where you from Merlin is there something wrong with Marilyn uh when was your last relationship July 2023 okay you still keeping contact with that person no I do not he stole my dog oh he stole your dog he stole my dog you got any kids no kids no kids how many kids you want about three when you trying to have them whenever I get married D okay let’s go to our next guy all right any questions for her yes uh what got you in the gardening I’m asking that question because when you get into gardening you like to watch things grow I do and I can tell by this love that we share you’re going to watch it grow and you’re going to nourish that so what got you in the gardening ooh ooh so um I grew up in the country kind of of Maryland and I don’t know I was always outside and things like that and I wasn’t always allowed to play with my brothers so I found myself still being outside but doing something productive and whatnot so when I got my own apartment and things like that I just started growing like peppers and tomatoes and it was very soothing to see something grow as you just said like oh I did that and then eat what you grew it’s an amazing feeling definitely definitely um so how soon are you you talking like marriage how soon uh whenever we’re both ready um I am about to enter my 30s I would love to have my first child before 32 okay preferably um so it’s that like 3 years so you know whenever we have that connection and whenever he’s W whenever I’m ready you just going to know okay okay uh you live here I don’t I live in Texas where at I live in Austin Texas I’m in Houston okay so so so who would make that who would make do you want to live in Houston or do you want to live in Austin or somewhere else um I don’t ever have a problem relocating okay um Houston I’ve gone there a few times but the Vibes the reason why I went there was to party so I don’t really know what else there is to do there besides that but I’m pretty sure Houston’s a beautiful place okay okay okay it really doesn’t matter to me as long as we together we can go wherever you want to go okay so it really doesn’t matter but I’m from New Orleans okay U you have been to Louisiana I have you have it’s beautiful there okay okay all right so let’s go back this way yes you dodged popping one earlier so now you got to pop two I’m going to have to um eliminate two of them okay mhm all right so Lord have mercy so I’m going to pop you okay you’re very attractive young man look good too baby you look good too baby okay and I’m going to pop you you’re a great looking young man as well okay let’s go back up here come on over here come on over all right so you know I always have just one final question if there’s no others I don’t have a question you don’t I don’t have a question okay so is it going to be a yes for you for her yes and is it a yes for you for him yes we got a [Applause] m okay I’ll take this mic and you guys can go on oh look at y’all go let’s give it up for them y’all let’s give it up okay let’s go ahead and bring out our next single lady hello welcome in I’ll have you hold that hi all right what’s your name my name is Ryan what was that my name is Ryan Ryan okay how old are you I am 31 31 and what do you do I am an event coordinator okay and um what are some things you like to do for fun um I like to read a lot I have a book club it has currently like 30 members right now so I like to have a lot of fun and I plan parties and stuff for people so my life is and now what do you look for in a man um I look for like a protector um I look for someone who’s strong and someone who knows like what they want so okay and now what are some of your deal breakers um dough Breakers are like multiple baby mam um you don’t have like your own stuff so okay yeah those are dough breakers for me got it okay so we did get a few pop balloons let’s go ahead and go on over to them and see what’s going on okay okay we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Brian I’m 40 uh I pop my balloon because you know I don’t want to lead you on and fake anything if if you’re not really what I’m looking for the attraction got to be instant with me I believe in love at first sight yeah you know and I would I I would never lead you on to think that I’m feeling you like that when I’m not yeah I wouldn’t lead you on either so I respect it you’re beautiful though respect for you thank you’re beautiful where you from thank you I’m from Arizona you’re from Arizona yeah okay I hope you find your mask today thanks and now um is he someone that’s your type um no he’s not my type so it’s fine oh okay and what makes him not really your type um I like a taller guy and then I like a little bit a different type of look he doesn’t really have the look that I like so okay yeah okay all right let’s go on to our next pop balloon if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Demetrius and I’m 36 uh and to piggyback actually what she said to him just just not my style no offense to her just not my style no no other reason than that okay all right and what about him is he someone that’s your type no so it’s mutual it’s okay okay yeah it’s mutual yeah respectfully ma’am you guys look good everybody’s right some you know but yeah not no it’s not for me all right let’s go to our next guy your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon how you doing my name is Ernesto 31 years old um beautiful great energy and um aesthetic amazing I just feel like you know I’m 31 you’re 31 we got to be straight up with each other I just seem like we would be more cool you know what I’m saying like I feel like we can go out on a couple dates but I think like we’re kind of looking for maybe a longer term thing and I just like to be you know honest if we don’t feel like that yeah connection right away but you’re very beautiful and very cool thank you yeah okay yeah I understand I was in a 10year relationship so I’m not really um I’m kind of on the same wave as well like as far as that goes right yeah I’m with NI to meet you though it’s nice to meet you too Brian all right name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon I’m Mike I’m 37 um I like your style I think you’re beautiful I like the way you carry yourself it’s just more so the same like home girl vibe type cool cousin type energy so no disrespect do you get that often like people are like no so I do a lot of business I’m going be honest I do a lot of business with guys okay so you guys are it’s cool we can be I I need more business partners and more clients so respectfully it didn’t work out like this but I have business cards so we can we can all talk about it so is he someone that’s your type um he’s not really my type but I wouldn’t say no like if you ask me on a date I’d probably I’d probably be nice like that probably be nice you carry yourself well okay all right your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon James Gourmet Pi 37 and I pop my balloon kind of for the same thing like you get friend Vibes like I could see us doing business together you know what I mean like I love that you’re business-minded and business what you mean I’m roboty in real life so I get it it’s okay I get it yeah yeah so let’s connect afterwards business wise yeah like I’m looking for connection here in Ariz so oh yeah okay nice to meet you for sure thank you let’s go to our balloon up here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping yeah priest uh 33 you look good you look good got that that that Pepto bisol Vibe I I [ __ ] with it for real event coordinator yeah what kind of events do you coordinate I do all types of events from political events to birthday parties if you’re familiar with Sheik Chef is the only blackowned wine bar I’m their event coordinator for that I know who she is yeah yeah yeah I’m I’ll put you on my uncle he uh he could use somebody like you on his team as an event coordinator funny I love this I got I got business meetings after I didn’t get a date but so why did you end up hopping in business meetings respectfully uh I pop my balloon events so it’s like business you look good though you kind of got like an Angela Basset Vibe about you Tina Turner style but n you you look good but I’mma put you on with my uncle yeah for sure I I’m going give you his contact information put you on you look good thank you yes ma’am okay so is he someone that’s your type um I wouldn’t necessarily say my type but kind of like with the other guy too like you know you guys are I like your aesthetic as well you cool so the Army pant he was nice too that’s my older cousin oh yeah see we’re brothers we’re happy okay but yeah so um not really necessarily my type either but ma’ yeah yes ma’am okay all right well that is all the balloons popped unfortunately thank you so much for coming on let’s give it up for her guys I’ll take the B thank you all right let’s go ahead and bring out our next single lady welcome welcome I’ll have you hold this what’s your name my name is Kay k okay and how old are you I’m 31 all right and what do you do I am an entrepreneur I sell lip glosses my business is called cater Beauty and also I brought you some lip gloss oh for you thank you yes thank you for bringing me on I’m also a singer and a dancer okay yes and I produce television shows too okay you are busy yes and now uh what are some things that you look for in a man um I look for a man of integrity um a Godly Man a righteous man a king a man that knows he’s a king um I like a generous Man Too a man that’s sweet to me um a guy that likes to be healthy okay um cuz I like to be healthy I like to eat well um and a guy that actually likes going outside and respects nature okay yep all right now what are some deal breakers deal breaker I don’t like a liar and I don’t like a man that doesn’t like vegetables and likes to drink water doesn’t like to drink water that’s what I don’t like okay all right so we did get a couple of pop balloons let’s go on over there and see why they ended up popping okay okay if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon my name is Demetrius and I’m 36 and I just pop my balloon just because your Ambitions which I like uh I would prefer someone that’s career focused in one lane right that five four five different things it just means your time is spread thin and I can’t build without having time to build okay and that’s the only reason that’s fair okay and now is Demetrius someone that is your type I don’t know I don’t really know him that well I can’t say okay that’s fair he look nice though thank you you too thank you okay let’s go to our next guy here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping your balloon how you doing my name is Ernesto I’m 31 years old I want to say um aesthetically very beautiful you know great energy beautiful energy thank you and um I just think that which is not a bad thing you have a lot of businesses going on and stuff and I’m just looking for a woman that’s more focused on one business lane and then we can do our family thing too and I I I’ll have the three jobs you know what I’m saying so that’s just how I am but like I said you’re very beautiful but you just seem very busy so I understand that yeah you know I’m not for everyone I get it okay and now if um er Nessa were to approach you is that something you would go for if you approach me sure I mean I don’t know like I don’t know him so yeah I mean you look good so thank you you too yeah thank you so all right let’s head on back this way okay so we still do have four unpopped balloons so I’m actually uh switch it on over to you I’m going to have you pop two of the guys balloons just kind of based off of what you’re seeing you know style whatever it may be I’m going to go ahead and have you pop two of their balloons so let me hand you a pick okay oh man I know everyone says this is tough I know I know so you’ll just pop those two and then I’ll go ahead and ask you you know what about them yep dang I can’t ask a question not this round I’m like what what am I going off of ask question I’m not next round um okay pop two balloons okay so we actually did get a popped balloon so let’s go on over there see why he ended up popping his balloon let’s see why he pop okay if we can start with your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon James Gourmet Pi 37 and why did I pop my balloon um first of all I love the fact that you’re entrepreneurship minded you know and you have a good energy about you right I popped my balloon because I don’t know if there’s like that relationship Bond there you know um I’m 5’7 I haven’t gotten my height um surgery yet so yes if you give me about 6 months to a year I’ll be 6’4 but right now surg no I’m not sorry you going to have high surgery I’m not I’m not but um just right now like without heels on I need somebody 5 seven or shorter I feel you I don’t need that but I would prefer that I would prefer 5 seven or shorter so all right but let’s connect business- wise we oh we could do that we can definitely do that yeah what’s your name I’m James James okay yeah nice to meet you we’ll talk after period okay so we do have three balloons left okay I’m going go ahead and have you ask the guys a question just to kind of help you narrow it down okay um H I would like to know what is your best and worst quality okay let’s start here with your name and age priest I’m 33 uh best quality is attention to detail my worst quality is like time management yeah still working on that okay okay time management yes ma’am you got a lot of things going on you got to prioritize too much [ __ ] going on right now ma’am what do you do I’m a comedian really yeah oh I love to laugh yeah and I’ll put you on with my uncle Charleston white that’s your uncle okay yes ma’am okay cool our next guys if we can have your name and Age and what is your best and worst quality M my name is Brian I’m 40 uh and my best quality is I’m very well spoken um I like to listen before I speak um so that’s why the words come out well um my worst quality is um not faking it okay not faking it nice nice nice right all right cool all right thanks let’s go over here name and Age and what is your best and worst quality my name is Mike I’m 30 7 uh best quality I’m pretty down to earth like I’m pretty understanding not too much I can’t really understand um worst quality I probably could like be more outgo I’m I’m an introvert so I like to you know chill I like the people to seeing versus like being the one that’s getting the attention know I’m real to myself a little bit so okay all right cool okay see you got a little bit more now I did so you know what that means it’s time to pop so I’m going to go ahead and have you pop one of these guys balloon um [Music] okay pop yours I’m sorry okay why do we end up popping his um what’s H I don’t know I just don’t feel like we will make a really good couple why you think that why do I think that yeah I really don’t know all of you guys have really good answers you sure is not about the height huh no it’s not about the height at all yeah I’m not even somebody I can even pop on looks like I’m not that kind of person okay yeah I just for some reason Vibe wise I don’t think that we would make a good couple yeah okay that’s that’s funny cuz I think we make a great couple you think so I believe that okay yeah I think that you know but you know it’s it’s okay I respect your decision okay thank you you might have a different preference but you my preference I was going to stay to the end W okay you know and I got some tall guys that’s that I’m going up against so I got I got I got a lot against me already so but I’m willing to fight through that you know okay yeah definitely hey I know that’s right beautiful you’re very beautiful and I hope you find your match today thank you I appreciate that so we do have our two guys left here fellas do we have a question for her down there you have one let’s start here we’re already here yeah I got a question who you think cute me or my older cousin that’s your older cousin yeah y’all both cute but but you going to have to pck oh I have to do that right now after he asked you the question oh after he asked me a question okay well then look your okay question Let’s go ask say let’s go over here and ask him what’s your question sir I just wanted to know where you where you were from and then how do you feel about men with kids I’m from Dallas Texas and I would prefer him not to have kids cuz I don’t have kids but I’m open-minded you didn’t you didn’t let her finish she say she would prefer so I want I don’t want her to settle I want her to get exactly what she wants I feel that I appreciate that okay okay so you did have your balloon unpopped like is she someone that is your type yeah other than I I have two children so you know um 19 14 I’m I’m very interested if anything I think you’re very beautiful like where you carry yourself you said you’re big on health stuff like that I’m into that so I would have kept but I mean I don’t maybe I should have hell don’t let you make the decision but the same time I’m openminded but okay I mean you I’ll take a balloon back and I’ll let you make the decision yeah get your balloon back can we get a balloon back let’s get a balloon back you even let me finish I said I want you to what you looking for sorry okay all right you have anything else you want to ask or anything before you make your decision between them two oh my god um I can ask them both right of course um H what’s your relationship like with God do you have a relationship with God absolutely number one I believe uh I have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ as God so okay um just based on my experience you know I know what the truth is so that’s without God you know what would you add me okay okay thank you let’s head on back this way yes all right and what is your relationship like with God uh I believe in I believe in God um I’ve went through a couple tough times in my life and just out of nowhere I was blessed to to get up out of that stuff so I’ve been reading more into the Bible and yeah God number one nice yeah okay yeah my mama she big on you know telling me to put God first in my life cuz without God you you would gain the whole world and lose your soul never Li all right girl time to make a decision out of these two whose balloon are we popping can I ask one more question no you can ask them on a date when you get to know them [Music] okay wait do you have kids you do how many I got one you have one 10 okay and you say you have two what how what are the ages 19 14 19 and 14 oh they grown and you said yours is 10 10 one baby mama two two baby masas oh man come on y’all uh [Music] oh I wish I could but he he ended up getting his balloon back so I was like damn I know you look good though you got some J the PE Vibes on you and I know for a fact that you going to have a lot of men on you and I I wouldn’t want to come up slapping [ __ ] out of nobody cuz they you know what I like that I like a protective man you know what I’m saying yeah you got the J the PE Vib though I dig that I did I dig the haircut all right let me have you come on up here Mike oh we stay up here we stay up here all right so any final questions before we determine if this is a match I know the two baby mothers kind of rubbed you the wrong way right so was that was that were you about to pop my balloon or I don’t know I was thinking two baby moms but they grown up a long time yeah a long time now no were you married no no never married never married okay it’s kind of young moving kind of kind of fast right how you said you’re 37 mhm 37 but no further questions I guess you know I mean I’m um I would like to get to know you better course all right so now I’m ask to that perfect so is it a yes for you for her for her a yes okay and is it a yes for you for him it’s a yes okay we got a [Music] match I’ll go ahead to take this mic and you guys can go on off everybody holding hands [Applause] all right everyone thank you for tuning in this episode of pop the balloon or find love if you’re in the US and you’d like to be featured in any of our upcoming episodes the email address will be in the description box below make sure you like comment and subscribe and we will catch you all next time make some noise y’all [Applause] n