Hi, everyone, hope you are ALL doing good! Would love to share with you this sincere video about our life in our village on the South of France. Hope some of you will enjoy it! All the best to you all!!!
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one of my previous videos I um talk a
little bit about my work in Monaco but I
didn’t really tell what I’m doing um I
just uh I didn’t really
tell um what I am
doing uh I can
tell I just uh said that I’m working in
office the easiest way to say that I’m
working in finance but um in like in in
English language you will call it a risk
Department I know that uh from the time
when I was working in Thailand we called
it risk Department you’re just like you
work a lot with the finance department
and the legal department you know a bit
of both and you’re like in between and
uh today it was my it is uh still um I
didn’t get to the Village yet I just sto
to show you this beautiful view uh so
today is my last day driving um back
home from from Monaco from work uh yeah
yesterday we had like an opero with the
colleagues and today it’s my really last
day and I had to just finish uh the
things uh the last things and uh clear
the computer and clean the desk and Say
Goodbye yeah I leave it all
behind I leave it all behind so um I
just wanted to show you this beautiful
view of the village uh it’s already late
uh and uh let’s go let’s go I’ll show
you
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go there are two things happened one was
planned and discussed and we prepared
for this is that I will quit working in
Monaco so I will definitely not get now
this dream retirement you know all
people who lives here uh dream of uh
it’s actually very interesting fact that
if you work only 10 years in Monaco you
will get a
retirement that would be a minimum
amount and you will get it after a
certain age but uh you will have it uh
if you work there 10 years
uh longer you work hard this well anyway
uh I will not get it uh because I was
working there less than 10 years and I
won’t work there any longer you will do
a job over five people and if you are
not happy about it the door is open and
there are hundreds of people are waiting
to take your place so that was crazy a
lots of people who is living here want
to get a job in Monaco because the
salaries are higher and uh and the
medical insurance is very good like
really very good and um yeah lots of
people want to work there even in our
village I remember there was a question
like where people do work uh here living
in this Village I will say half of the
village are working in Monaco and uh I
was happy work there because we had this
big renovation project when our project
was finished in November I started to um
look for a part-time job and I found it
now and it’s French contract of course
it will make a very big difference from
what I had in Monaco everybody Lees the
same thing especially if you are from
the big city and uh uh they’re for sure
the worst scenario in Monaco you work 39
hours a week and uh if you are an office
job uh you will start at 9: and uh
finish at 6 and you will have a crazy
traffic uh during this specific time you
go out at 8 in the morning and you are
back at 7:30 in the evening and you have
only 1 and a half hour to spend with
your child before uh he goes to sleep so
last Friday for the first time I went to
take mat from school in time at 4:30 and
uh I was the happiest mom in the world
now I will spend more time with Matt I
will be able to bring him to a sport
activities um I will learn more about
photography and all of these things so
this is the good thing the other thing
uh that happened is the roof you
remember I told it we had lots of rain
in March uh so our roof couldn’t stand
it and um we knew that we need to change
the roof completely since the beginning
but uh there was always other thing to
repair and um I know that the roof is
the most important part of the
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house conditions of the roof when we
bought the house was very bad it is
still now we repaired it in few places
hoping to buy some time some more
time I was hoping to spend at least one
more winter like
this I was hoping to stay like this the
time I changed activities but what we
plan and how the things really happen
it’s almost never the
same
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oh now we have no choice but change the
roof
and this is how it looks like from
outside we covered the roof because we
expect some more rainy
days and uh from
inside it looks even
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worse oh
no all this
happened during one month no no
this is for sure that we cannot stay one
more winter like
this so we have three maybe four month
maximum to fix the roof before the next
winter
and uh we know already how it would cost
us so the first thing I was thinking do
I have a time to go back to my job but
it was already late so we have the
summer to figure out what we’re going to
do and how we will fix
it we also have to follow the standards
because we’re living in this medieval
village and uh normally the roofs have
to be a special
color the three colors uh proval
Tri
so we will take it in
mind so we have to also inform the city
hall about upcoming
roof renovation and start to contact the
repairing companies
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like we knew that something going to
happen with the upstairs area we never
even fed it uh much we have only this
old canipe that we are about to drop it
serves us well but it’s time to change
it
now h
this living room is very big actually
for just three of us and um even when we
have the guests we always stay
downstairs where the kitchen and dining
table and the Terrace and um upstairs we
always felt
ourself not really comfortable it’s not
cozy
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Matthew just suggesting us to paint
everything in white so we don’t see the
links we would be very happy if it’s so
easy just to do this so as I said that
we never spend much time here uh that we
we just didn’t feel
comfortable and uh let’s take something
positive from this um upcoming
renovation we want to divide this area
into
two and make a room for
Matthew
made windows on a
ceilings on another side of the living
room and and uh live it as a living room
just next to the
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fireplace I prefer room to be small but
cozy and uh from Matthew room actual
Matthew room I want to do my place where
I can work I will call it my dream
Studio we have a good weather today but
we will have some rain uh soon and we
had already so
much we had hail another
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day
what
what oh my my
God oh my God ha on the south of France
in
April what
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we had this strange snow or hail or I
don’t know how to call it and lots of
rain more than in many many many past
years and this is our Trail where we
usually
walk in the forest and it turns to a
river now it’s a river no doubt that
with this unusual weather our roof was
damaged we can’t fix the roof for a
moment but Matt is trying to fix the
trail he’s building
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walking in this beautiful Forest I was
thinking should I go back to Monaco
I might the doors are not
closed but do I want to step in the same
river
twice I hope
not whatever happens at the end
everything going to be all right
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36 Comments
You warm my heart! You all are such a beautiful people! There so much kindness in all your words! I will listen to all your precuios advices! Thank you so so much!!! Big hug!!
your videos are so heartwarming and beautiful and make us feel like we know you, I think some of your viewers could surely help you make some income from your wonderful photo and video production
You have made the right decision, don't look back
Stay with your chaming son.
Work is for later.
Beautiful film. Thank you.
Bonjour Aselia, félicitation pour votre décision, je suis sure que la vie vous amenera que de bonne choses. Merveillieux que Nathalie vous a rencontér lors de notre voyage,. J'espere que vous avez apprecié notre sirop d'érable fait traditionnellement A notre ferme aux quebec. En espérent qu'un jour vous puiossiez venir vivre l'experience.
Michael et Nathalie de la ferme Lilly.
Wishing you all the best during this new chapter of your life. I think you are following your intuition and it will open up many new possibilities for you!
Aselya you have a valuable gift, when I watch your videos l am there, walking, recreating my eyes with that enormous natural beauty and your warm voice is like a whisper with the exact intonation. You and your beautiful family are living your moment with natural beauty, you enjoy it, you share so many moments together and the best thing is, your child will receive the love of you and nature. Life is short enjoy what you have and do now.
Your home is beautiful ❤️
Merci! Another beautiful video of your home! I was born in France but grew up in America. My parents raised me as close to the French way as possible. We went back to France a couple of times and I was able to get to know the village that my family came from. It was very similar to yours. Watching you makes me homesick, but warms my heart. Merci beaucoup. ❤
Your vlogs are so Beautiful! I feel like i am watching a movie..but also like i am there with you! Follow your heart..it will always be ok ❤
good luck with your decision 😊❤❤❤i love your videos 😊
Omg I am so proud of you! Its not always easy to do what needs to be done, when it comes to your own happiness, but once you do everything starts to fall into place and this will work itself out too. You got this 😀
Your title scared me, I thought you were quitting videos! ❤ So glad you’re deciding to make more time with family. I homeschool my five children and wouldn’t change it for the world.
What is the name of the beautiful village… we love France , visited all those villages north of Nice and Monaco twice.
Well, I’m so sorry to see the water damage from the roof and that you will need to replace it, but I hope you don’t have to go back to work full time. It’s wonderful that you have had more time to spend with Matthew.
Love from Mary in Southern California 💗
Its a precious gift being able to spend more time with your child.
thumbs up if you want a how to video on how to achieve this type of living in a french village like this
You will not regret being a full time mom! It’s the best thing raising and spending time with
kids.
My daughter and I are visiting Provence and Marseille this summer. How far are we from your village? Where are the best towns to visit? Any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
I am very happy for you and I think you made a wise decision in quitting your job. Your child will only be a little boy for a short period of time. Enjoy this time with him and he will thank you for it when he becomes a man and has a family of his own. Money is not everything and don’t worry about roofing. The money will come, just be positive. You will eventually have your roof fixed. I lived with a leaky roof for 5 yrs, eventually the money came and we survived.
Hello Aselya, I found your YouTube channel and I love it so much that I would like to spend some time in June at the Cote D'Azur learning French. Can you recommend a place to stay and a school to learn French ?
I’m so happy that you will now get more time at home love you all lots ❤
You live in a beautiful place. What a blessing to have a different job and be local. Will you have another child or is your family complete? Your place is tres belle.
Love from Sri Lanka ❤
Όλα θα πάνε καλά πίστεψε το και θα γίνει ❤
Sending prayers for you and your beautiful family xoxo
This video showed up on my feed from nowhere, and I enjoyed it so much. Reminds me of my childhood in a way (I am 58 and live in South Africa). It is so beautiful – I was in Nice and visited Monaco in 2017 and think this is a peace of heaven on earth. Unfortunately I broke my foot just a few days before the trip and was limited in where I could go. This just reaminds me that I want to go back there again. Thank you for sharing your beautiful life and in such a calming and soothing way❤. Subscribing to your channel💕
I'm very happy to have discovered your videos. I regurally watch them over and over again. I hope you will make a lot of videos!!! I love all of them.❤
The Universe always has your back…. everything is always working out….
That upper room just needed different furnishings and curtains to feel comfy and cozy. It is not a big room at all; it’s the modern table/chairs and leather couch that made it seem cold. Very hard to picture that as 2 rooms, yet I am 100% sure you will make it work and they will be super cozy. The money will come – time is fleeting and children grow up. So glad you will be there with Matt as he grows!
Hi Azelija; I really hope you”lol read my comment. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤ for all your beautiful and positive stories you share. This is because of you I came to French Riviera and visited Menton a few days ago. And the craziest thing that I saw you with your husband walking don the street by the sea!!!! I was on the phone with my mom when that happened. I hesitate too long and you guys were gone. I really wanted to chase you and give you a hug but I guess I missed my chance. Both of you looked happy and smiling just like in your cute videos. But I hope will have another chance. I’m in Antibes now and living in a day back home. I hope delicious you’ll make will bring you peace. I wish you best of luck. Lots of love to you and your family ❤️❤️❤️. I love your channel. Whatever you do don’t quit it.
Time passes so quickly with children, before you know it Matthew will be wanting that whole upstairs for his "bachelor's pad"! I live in an old cottage in Ireland and we're having roof problems too. It's the worst!
Difficult to tell from the video but the roof does look structurally sound. If that is the case and it is tiling and replacing slats I hope it will not be too problematic for you. You haver each other that is the main thing. Good luck.
So sorry you are moving on…greetings and blessings from North Texas!
You be careful about mold it can effect your health so watch your walls
Love your gentle style! Your village looks beautiful! What is it's name please?
Soo pretty village you have!